week 6: Question 2

It is very interesting to know that although men and women have the same words, but the way they are used gives different meanings. The expressions are similar, but they have different connotations or emotional emphasis. It is just like each group has its own language. 

Women tend to use various superlatives, metaphors, and generalizations when she is upset or frustrated. But she does not expect those words to be taken literally. They are just used to fully express her feelings and ask for particular support. However, men mistakenly take these expressions literally and misunderstand the intended meaning. He thinks she is blaming him and commonly reacts in an unsupportive manner. Then it leads to arguments. At such times, it's important for men to rethink or translate what the have heard and show their caring and support.